i hate whys

I hate it when people ask me why

• why are you sick?
• why don't you cut your hair?
• why are you here?
• why did you do this?
• why are you fat?
• why are you poor?
• why did you hurt your knee?
• why is so and so...

As if answering the why, the problem will resolve itself. I hate whys, it is a victim question, trying to displace guilt, finding a reason for something happening, when effort should be on solving the problem.